Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, 9 June 2012

45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON’T ASK FOR: So just do it..!!



1. Touch her waist. 2. Actually talk to her. 3. Share secrets with her. …4. Give her your jacket. 5. Kiss her slowly. Are you remembering this? 6. Hug her. 7. Hold her. 8. Laugh with her. 9. Invite her somewhere. 10. Hangout with her and your friends together. KEEP READING .. 11. Smile with her. 12. Take pictures with her. 13. Pull her onto your lap. 14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back. 15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved. Are you thinking of someone? 16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her. 17. Kiss her unexpectedly. 18. Hug her from behind around the waist. 19. Tell her she’s beautiful. 20. Tell her the way you feel about her. One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it. 21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman. 22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it. 23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her. 24. Make her feel loved. 25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know! WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US .. 26. Don’t lie to her. 27. DON’T cheat on her. 28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants. 29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her. 30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you. ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT. 31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too. 32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her. 33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her). 34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly. 35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her. REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT .. 36. When people diss her, stand up for her. 37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her. 38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you. 39. When walking next to each other grab her hand. 40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible. MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED. 41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams. 42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears. 43. Take her for long walks at night. 44. Always remind her how much you love her. 45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

What is True Love?


We often love someone every time in our life. And it's funny every time we find any new one we think it's the true love. But is it?? We often do things which she likes and likes us for that. Time goes on and attraction looses it's weight. Why? Because she liked us for the things which we did for her. So, where is true love than? And if we find it how would we recognize it? Is it the intensity of love we feel when we are together and the never ending pain when she is away..!! Well it may be, but it's just the joy of having someone for me only. And also it comes repeatedly. So what else? The way she treats you, caring more than herself, sharing every thought and the lovely promises  she asks over the fights seeing other couples? I don't think so. She is too excited of having a boy for her and all these things are to make sure we should never leaves her.So what is true love than?


Let's keep this story aside and take an example. We almost have a fight with our mom. She never understands our tender age and our feelings though. She scolds us for silly things too. She knows that no one can be perfect, but still tries her best everyday to make us same. ( Her Heart... no treatment..!! ). And what we do? We don't talk to her, ignore her. She do the same showing the angry attitude of her. But in the evening if we dare to skip our dinner, than she is back our old mummy. Loving, caring, pampering mom. She always know a secret how to cheer us. She just revolves her magic band and we start sharing every thing we have in our mind to her. This is not a one time thing, but a constantly repeating thing over our life. Why do we forgive her for her scoldings every time? Why can't ourselves live without speaking to her longer?


Is this due to love I do to her? But I love my girl-friend also. But no magic is like this. Is it because she is elder? Hell no. Otherwise my girlfriend would also be senior to me, and I wouldn't have even liked this. So is this because no else woman even exactly same or better, can replace her? Yes, this may be the reason. No one is like her. I don't even want someone better than her. If she is wrong to me, I don't have any problem also. What ever she is, it's just perfect for me. And also I respect her. I respect her without giving a second thought. I believe whatever she do is just perfect for me, even if I don't like it and fight for it. I want her to be with me always, as she was with me right from birth.


So it means I love my mom truly. Because I love her unconditionally, respect her for what she is and nobody can replace her. So does this test is applicable to my girlfriend also? Yes. If I can trust her blindly. If I feel praising her for every single thing between us. I respect her for being true. And no one else could know me better than her. If these things happen automatically, than yes she is my true love that I was searching in every other girl too.

Shubham Singhal